If You Haven't Argued In Your Marriage, Then.....

by - September 09, 2014

When we first met, the honeymoon phase was splendid, and we were angels in our brightest character shades, often "too perfect to do wrong",  however, it was so amazing. It's still amazing, more amazing, with time and prayer, love gets better. Back to the topic, so like we said earlier, lost in thoughts..............Time went by, days, weeks, and then months....then we had our first argument, can you believe we first argued over jollof rice; just kidding- thought we'd slip that in here; seriously can't remember our first silliest argument; however, it was a wake up call to how human we are. 

It's very easy to see the best side of a relationship looking outwards in. It's rare to see the challenges couples face, especially in the early phase of the relationship, as learning of and from each other is paramount. So to all the single ones out there " sometimes e no be easy oooo" 
We've been there, sometimes it's inevitable to avoid arguing, think about this,  perfection in marriage realistically is not practical. As long as there's human respect and dignity, nothing is insolvable. What we've learned so far is that,  even in the face of a misunderstanding, be kind. 

How do we work ours out? We do so by accepting our faults, if not right away, eventually we do, however, no problem leaps over midnight. We do our best to address and solve our issues before bedtime. Prayer has solidified our bond, and at a year old in marriage, Gods voice and guidance continue to strengthen us. 
We encourage you not to give up on your love due to a silly arguments ooooo, understand that no one is perfect. We all do make mistakes in life, therefore, embrace each other's positive imperfection, embrace and grow together in love through your lifetime. 

Thank you for reading.

Love Always,
AKQ


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