African King and Queen

My mother, has had three of these Godly experiences. That means that she's seen God's presence in her life that many times. I'm not surprised that she's an angel. Choosing to endure this three times in a lifetime puts her on a pedestal of elegance and profound accomplishment not measured only by mankind, but signified as a blessing and mercy from God.

Thinking back, it's been six months already? Six solid months of man-and-wife. Yes!

It's okay to be single. Love comes in do many forms. Define love and embrace the positivity that comes with it. Let's see, what did we do when we were single? Hmmmm! Prayed and hoped we get to celebrate it in future. And here we are. 

Today is not a members only day, it's a day for everyone to embrace love and all the good things that come with it. To us it's a slow down caution to acknowledge each other more and more in the midst of working full time and pursuing further education full time. 

At a least day a month, spend some quality time with the one you love and have a love talk. Make her/him feel special. It's human to love, don't miss out on any opportunity to love. 

So many a time, in the midst of chaos is when we show the most love to one another; don't be the one to wish he/she could have loved. Therefore, most importantly, our message to you today is  " love everyday, not just Valentines day". 

Happy Valentines 

Love always, 

Lilian&Dennis 

Lilian, I've loved you always and I forever will.  I remember how excitedly nervous and anxious I was, but when you walked in, I felt that calmness, that peacefulness, and a fulfillment of joy and happiness. I said wow! She look so beautiful. I then believed that this is happening. My dream has come true.

Be precise and definitive to desperate affection from love. Loving is sacrificing. Love is when a father toils in a farm daily so his son can have an education. Loving is when a mother takes odd jobs so her children can have food to eat. Love is giving all you got to someone, to benefit them and not yourself. 

Like all people, we all want to work traditionally and make enough money to survive. However, the toil of making some money, owe some school loans, pay as you age- all in stress and nature taking a toll on you, not to mention, the other costs and bills you inherit as you create your own nuclear families.  In todays world, that thought process gradually becomes pulseless.

The world continues to impatiently evolve at an alarming and confident rate; therefore, precious time wasted cannot be painfully recovered. We live in era where the no choice but to be successful. Be successful at all cost, but genuinely, and with gratitude to all the sacrifices you've made, or have been made for you. Obviously the definition of success is independent of ones conciousness, however, if you have to live the rest of your life owing every financial institution, tell you what, that's not life lived.

At all cost be creative. Spend time each to daydream and brainstorm. We are we continue to at all times, and so should you.

Related post: Don't Give Up, Seriously 

In your quest for a suitable quality of life garnished in well earn and comfortable financial and emotional successfulness, it is of upmost importance to become a multidimensional thinker. With each second of time, the world changes, the world changes by virtue of technology, science, and the way we think as a human race based on our culture; obviously religion plays a role, but that will be on a different post.

Related post: Outliers 

The perception you have of the world today determines your chance(s) of becoming success. If you've always considered and welcomed the traditional route and being a slave to Sallie Mae, and the reaping some grounding, and paying back the loans with your hard earned blood, sweat and tears, then more grace to your elbows. But, if you choose to be an outlier- as per Malcom Gladwell, you have nothing to lose, because you endeavor to take the optimist route of success as your only option.

Thank you for reading.....

Love Always,
Lilian&Dennis 

Written in Pidgin 
Ah! Wey matter dis? This winter vex with we paaa...ah! So so snow, so so state of emergency, last week, this week, the week before, eish! Man for go work make some money ah, weather wan slow tings down. But how we do am......sometimes God dey see say man need rest, so this be how God dey make we know say He dey love us.

We dey enjoy am ooo. How we go do am We go have snow fight outside sef. We mix the love with the snow. Ibi good say we dry house today. Man taya ah, much needed day-off. Catch up on some school work, pay some bills, plan for the week. Thank God for days like dis, especially when we have no days off. Ino be easy but man go make am.